Quite Continental Charm School: Day 14 – Write Love Letters
14/02/2012 § 2 Comments
The Quite Continental Charm School
A modern guide to creating a charmed life
Waverly Place, New York, 1968. Image via the George Eastman House.
Happy Valentine’s Day! I hope you are having a wonderful day filled full of all sorts of love! The city felt quite festive today, with lots of flowers and balloons on the subway. Always nice to see New Yorkers excited for love. We’re not quite as cynical as movies would have you think!
Day 14: Write Love Letters
On a day that celebrates affection, today’s tip for a charmed life suggests you make record of your love in a concrete manner. Nothing is more romantic, more touching or more timeless than the art of writing love letters.
While momentous when said the first time, it is possible that “I love you” can sometimes become something of an aside, a routine. When you write down how you feel about someone, it allows you to explain all that your “I love yous” have symbolized: how much you admire them, how much you respect them, how much you desire them. Things they might have felt (or maybe not!), and things they should be told.
A few guidelines:
- Love letters don’t need to be novels — if you’re feeling exceptionally stuck, try starting out with short notes.
- You’ll always get bonus points if you deliver your love letters in an original way — I like tucking them inside the book you’re reading, attaching them to your bath towel so you’ll see it in the morning, or sending them in the mail to your office.
- Lastly, I will admit that this post was in part inspired by the letters of Clementine and Winston Churchill, but I don’t want you to think that this only can be applied to romantic relationships. Some of my favorite valentines of all time are those sent to me by my friends and by my parents, in fact — hearing that my friends and family care for me is something I could never tire of!
Taking the time to tell someone how much you love them only opens you up to receive more love. It is classy, it is fabulous, and it is charming. Could there be a better way to celebrate Valentine’s Day?
See also: 28 Days of Classy & Fabulous: Be Your Own Valentine (2011)