Quite Continental Charm School: Day 4 – Unexpected Compliments
05/02/2013 § 1 Comment
The Quite Continental Charm School
A modern guide to creating a charmed life
“Why sir, that is an amazing hat!”
“Funny, I was just about to say the same thing to you!”
William Jennings Bryant and friends. Via SDASM.
Editor’s Note: Today I am very pleased to introduce our first Charm School guest speaker for 2013! Stephanie Madewell, the brilliant mind behind the exceptionally erudite blog even*cleveland, is with us this morning for her second Charm School appearance (you can find her 2012 entry here).
It is difficult to describe even*cleveland, which is probably why I love it so much. Somewhat thematic in nature, Stephanie explores various topics (e.g., swans, works in miniature, Louisa May Alcott, winter) through the lenses of art, literature, photography, museum collections and fashion, connecting dots I didn’t know existed. I find I am frequently staggered at the breadth of this lady’s knowledge about…well, pretty much everything! Aside from that, she’s also a great source for information on cultured happenings in New York and usually posts awesome weekend tunes. If you are not yet familiar with Stephanie and even*cleveland, it is my pleasure to introduce you.
Without any further ado, Stephanie’s tip for a charmed life.
Day 4: Unexpected Compliments
I don’t know about you, but for me, nothing saves a crummy day like an unexpected compliment, especially the kind that comes totally out of the blue from a total stranger.
Since I’ve moved to New York, I’ve noticed a lot more random compliments zinging around. My theory is that they operate on some kind of karmic exchange, and that you have to pay them to get them. Funnily enough, I’ve found paying strangers compliments is almost as good as getting a compliment myself. Brightening someone’s day is pretty awesome.
Simone Weil said that “attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity.” Paying a compliment to a stranger may seem like a small thing, but telling someone you notice their kindness or even their cute shoes is a small but mighty action that adds a little light to the world. What’s more charming than that?
by Stephanie Madewell, of even*cleveland